Please watch Chris Iveson coaching Arpi.
password: Chris_2020
pls choose English subtitles (:D or Hungarians :D)
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We also love and recommend these articles on coaching in conflict situations and decision situations - fitting nicely to next module.
great video. I am impressed how little Chris seems to think for his question but each triggered a lot of thinking on the client’s side. I liked also he interjected some humour in the middle with both the girlfriend and sister having the same first name
I was quite surprised that 80% of the time the focus is on preferred future. It was a beautiful example to discover all the details: how would it feel, what he would do differently, what his girlfriend, brother, colleagues would do differently and their interaction with eachother. The coachee looked very happy, relieved as a result and hopefully it will give him the motivation to improve his relationship with his father.
Starting with the relationship to his father, exploring all his systems around, like girlfriend, colleagues, siblings and FINALLY coming back to his father as the most normal topic in the world.... This does amaze me again and again.